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5 Things I Have Come To Accept About Myself

I am a stubborn human being. I have been called stubborn from the time I could talk. I choose to believe it’s not being stubborn, more like wanting to learn, soldiering on and sometimes doing things my way. If you … Continue reading

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Random Thoughts Thursday

The question “what do you want?” seems innocent enough and should be quite easy to answer. Unless that person being asked is me and the person asking the question is my very good friend who only asks me this question … Continue reading

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Goodbye, Shalenipo, Adieu, Adios, Kwaheri,

Driving down Golf Rd to church this morning, it hit me that this is my last drive to church and I started tearing up. If you know me, you will know that I am a hardcore G and don’t cry … Continue reading

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Update On The Joys Of No Alcohol

  On January 11th, I embarked on a “no alcohol 2016 journey” for various reasons, mostly outlined in my first post regarding this topic. I picked this date to start because it coincided with the fasting and prayer program that … Continue reading

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Alcohol Free For A Year; 2016 Challenge

THE STRUGGLE IS REAL Y’ALL!! 2016. The year I embarked on a no alcohol journey. Now, I know saying I gave up alcohol makes me sound like I’m an alcoholic, but really I’m not. Well, I think I’m not. I … Continue reading

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Of Ear Infections and Long Flights…

D Day is finally here! So today I finally get on that Emirates plane on my way home to the motherland, a place I have not visited in four years. Now to many people, this isn’t a long time but … Continue reading

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Why Online Dating Is Easy…

For Someone Like Me… So, I have written about online dating before but I don’t think I ever wrote about how and why I chose online dating. A few moons ago, I lived with an aunt who dated online. One … Continue reading

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Letting go of a-once-upon-a-time-great friendship

A friend face book messaged me today (yesterday) to see how I am doing. She and I barely talk these days. After the courtesy check on each other’s lives, we have nothing more to talk about. It’s always the same … Continue reading

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“You Gat This; Even With Wet Hands Lol”

“Nerves are killing me!! I have an interview in less than 30 mins. My hands won’t dry (insert gritting teeth emoji).” “You got this exe :-D” “Even with wet hands lol” “Lmao I hate interviews They suck I only ever … Continue reading

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Part 6

I am socially awkward and prefer to keep to myself. I somehow feel threatened when it comes to socializing, kind of like I will be judged in a negative manner. My social skills are pretty much non-existent, it’s a wonder … Continue reading

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